Change!

...People say change is the only thing constant . And People who don't adapt and change with times will not survive . We say the world has changed a lot and people change and our family generations have changed .Man has always had ways to bring change upon himself ...

But not all these changes are natural , if we sit back , relax and think , we will realise that many a times we force change on us. This happens because of external influences and we fear if we don't force the change on us , we cant survive. For example assume a Television set .. from a black and white box shaped receiver to update to date wall mountable 3d LED's . , what a transformation ??? . Mind boggling in one way . But look at the evolution carefully . from black and white to colour was all fine and really a modern step but then from that to Plasma , Lcd and now LED's .. are these even necessary and don't you think these changes are forced on us and we succumb to the external pressure.

In the same the Culture , Family values and ethics are dwindling or now a days people call it " Change"/.Pre-marital affairs , post marital affairs and extra marital affairs are all called modern socio- changes , the respect to the morality , values and and even Love ..which is supposed to be so pure has now become commercialised and it is really surprising .. love now a days changes from person to another person in no time .. we propose , dispose and we propose again .. and when we give a reason for the break up ..we say the person changed .. aren't we supposed to understand each other when we are in love and love is certainly not already having a an affair and going around with someone else to coffee bars or pubs and walking hand in hand, clicking cuddly pictures .. and then we realise when one day the person doesn't take us around and then they call it quits and we loose the other person who loved us truly too ... we call all the above things as modern love and how we excitedly say how Love has changed over time .. again this change in love .. is externally influenced .

We say the World is changing and we need to change but in reality we are forcing the world to change !!!

Wen a person is off good nature and character ? would you want him to change?? change wont be required if we start accepting things or even people as they are .. and the love which comes when accepting things as they are will be ever lasting .. .

On the other hand we fail to force the change were we need too , as in our political system .. Today's politicians are nothing but blood suckers .. they extract as much as possible from people rather than protecting people. We must force these people out, now that is what i call as a Good Change.

We should ask the question to ourselves .. The change which we need to undergo .is it natural ?? or is it exerted on us ??? and if it a forced change it must be for a good cause.