
What makes us to judge a person !!!!? people are judged by the way they talk , they dress , they walk and from what we hear form other people and some just by how they look??? , we always judge people even if we are not an acquaintance to them .. and we assume that our judgment is right and we have our own perception of things but when they same happens to us , we want to just get hold of that person and put some sense in to them.
Its really hollow of human beings to judge another being without knowing facts , it would be a surprise how e judge and have a perception in just a matter of seconds , we as parents , or adults tell kids not to have bias but then we ourselves have bias and sometimes we don't even have proper reason to justify our judgment or bias or our perception . We might have met the person at a wrong time or at the wrong place or even worse when the other person is having a bad day , its always better to understand facts and scenarios before taking a stand .
It is more then enough if we just approach the person and gt to know him at-least a little bit , before judging or having a perception about that person , just because a person is flashy or bold or loud , it doesn't mean that particular person is having a bad attitude or a person who has head weight or a person who is not humble ., its just that they have their own personality and we should try to respect that .
Judgments and perceptions are everywhere right from or Schools to our work places and even in our homes . iam amazed at how student or a child is branded as no use when he or she is not good at studies and similarly how some people are appraised i a negative way based on one bad incident or work they have dine and how other good things are tend to be ignored Naughty child can also be a brilliant child , a student who is average at studies can be a brilliant sports person ,or she is not good at studies , a man or a woman can be bad at mechanical tasks but they can be good strategist , it is always better to know a person before making a judgment and we should respect individuals and individuality and thus we can be coherent unit striving for success rather than a group of individuals with the agenda to make others life miserable.
Life is simple , lets keep it simple .