Her Love! His Love !

Her Love!

" She said she loves me ..
so does her eyes , her voice and her heart but she cant profess it ,
she wants to hold my hand and walk a mile but all she can
do is to see me from a distance and feel that im walking with her ...
she says she cant say " i love you :
all she can do is whenever i speak , she feels the same when she speaks to me
she says she wants to kiss my eyes and whisper take care
but all she can do is to look into my eyes and smile ,
I asked her why cant she do what she feels like
she replies im not mine and im a prisoner in exile
Only my heart knows that there is no escape from her travails
One day , i said she will be as free as a roaming cloud ..
she smiles and parted ......"

His Love !

" He knows she breaths his name , every breath
He knows that he is filled in her thoughts and words
He knows that she cares , adores
He knows that she caress him everyday in her dreams
But he knows well too that all this is a dream ...
This dream is the eternal truth ".....

Sucides! Strong will!

" Failures are the stepping stones to success" ..the famous adage .. but are really failures are stepping stones to success...??? If so , why we are hearing , seeing and reading so many news about suicides everyday ????

"25 year old committed suicide , Boss scolded him in front of others"( could have reasoned with Boss)
" 14 year old committed suicide , didn't do well in exams" (at least could have waited till the results)
"22 year old committed suicide , Girl didn't accept love" ( Man there are so many other girls)
" 14 year old committed suicide , not having a PlayStation"( lot of people don't even have cricket ball to play)


All of the above specifies or shows one thing in common.. The current generation doesn't have the strength or the courage to face failure or dejection . They lack the inner strength and they are so psyched by the fear of failure or rejection.

The normal tendency of a Human Being is to be accepted and celebrate success but then why is that we are not able to accept defeat , failure or rejection is a part of life .

Simple , the way we are brought up , peer pressure and the they way so called society perceives failures ans rejects .People must understand that its OK and its normal to get rejected or fail after all nobody can win all the times nor all the people we meet will like us .

Parents on their part must ensure the child is cared and made understood that failures are OK and we will be there for you no matter what we are there for you and we will be there for you .
Friends should comfort each other saying " after all if we dint fail we don't learn " and give ample strength who has failed and make them realise there is more to life .
Children must be thought to share and should be inculcated that its all well not o have something and its happiness when we share.
Schools , colleges and universities must also counsel on how to accept failures and the ways to work around rather then admonish .
Colleagues , Bosses must treat everyone equally , if in case a chiding is needed do it in private
Most of all we should be strong and have the ability to pick up ourselves up and fight back .. " Remember Robert Bruce how he learnt to win from a Spider"....
Edison failed a 1000 times but he said he learnt he cant use 1000 things( He found tungsten filament to be used in bulbs)
Abraham Lincoln knew nothing but failures , but he is the Greatest American President ever.....

if we all try to make this mindset and challenge people who say success is only life , the future society will be mentally strong and healthy ...

Its easier said than done ..but its worth a try .