Know Her: As a girl what does she want? Just a guy who would love her till world’s end, a guy who would be only hers and would desire no one but just her at all times. A guy who would give the assurance that he would be with her together forever always.
Love her: When all that a girl asks is this, why are we termed as being the ‘Complicated Lot’. To get a girl’s love, all that a guy has to do is love her deeply and sincerely without horizons, allowing her to feel the depth of his love and she would gladly come into his arms, promising to b his for eternity.
Boy's Answer:
" It is enough if your love for me is true , you need not say or express it to me ,
Just have a smile when you recognise me ,
Just have the sparkle when you see me ,
Just have those soothing words to console me
Just let me rest my head on your shoulders , when i am down ..
Just Let me hold your hand and dance in joy , when iam elated ...
Another Boring day .. its like, iam sitting on a hot stove .. iam so restless .. there is nothing here apart from my official mail and my phone . I don't access to study materials too and iam not sure how iam going to while away my day .. well.. tried mailing few friends of mine , but I guess they are busy in their own way and my phone.. is a great company till the battery back up lasts .In fact bought a new battery but still . it becomes tired soon . The Only difference between me ad my battery is that it becomes tired after working the whole day and I become tired by trying to do something. I listened to a few numbers with the mp3 app in my phone and then played a mini game.,l time stood still. My other colleagues have started working on their respective projects , in fact one colleague leaves only by midnight and the other comes as early as 6 am .. ! Hard working people and I hardly work. Iam just hoping this lull shouldn't last long and something good comes up after this .. as they " There is a lull before a storm"., I hope there isn't a storm to blow me away , rather a gentle breeze which gives me time to settle down . Lot of thoughts are traversing in my mind , some positive , some negative and some neutral and iam really not sure what to make out of them and I don't even know why they ,now and then keep popping up .Its different when you don't have a job and you are idle but when you are working and then you are made to sit idle , its like you are running in a slow motion or in a reverse gear while others are fast forwarding , everything moves slow for you , yes, it appears as though even Time moves slow and you are made to feel guilty that you are wasting it . How nice it would be If this time would gets added when I am running out of time while doing something else ., it like the time bonus in the racing games I play . I have all the energy and the enthusiasm but without anything to do , iam withering away my energy and enthusiasm as a rose withers away her petals In autumn ! .
I didn’t know what it was to feel ‘care’
I didn’t know what it was to feel ‘love’
I dint know what it was to feel ‘sweetness’
I couldn’t even tell the light from the darkness
My heart lay so dry and bare
so void of love, sweetness and care
Then Like a miracle you stepped into my life.
And all things changed as you filled my thoughts
Your eyes expressed the care I had never seen before
Your heart expressed the love I had never felt before
Your smile made me too see the light …
And your presence itself spread the sweetness delight
If I ever take a wrong turn,you will sure guide me to the right way
If I ever have a confusion,your whisper will tell me the right way
With you by my side I need not fear ‘the fear’
My heart will beat for u always and ever
Now I want to live my life to the fullest
To fill my heart with love which is the purest
With you by my side,I will walk towards the setting sun
Holding your hand in mine,feeling the heaven divine
Hoping this moment to freeze forever
Hoping this moment would cease never
Never wanted to fall in love and nor the feel
you said iam special and i deserve them
But , i knew those words are meant for only people , who have their hearts
I tried to tell you mine was wounded and lost
Iam just a dead man walking ....
You forced blood in to my brain ,
Made my heart pump again made me fall for you
But,then when i tried getting closer ..
And you said " All,i can be is just another friend ,
With That you plucked my heart out and made ,me realise that Iam just a " Dead Man Walking ".
" Eternal Love "-Rj
"I saw you first in my dreams,
I realised i felt something special in my heart
You were very near to me and you didn't leave me even when my shadow left me
I fell in love even before i saw you ..
And Live with you thinking it was eternal love,
But ...
When I saw you,came running for you
I realised you were holding hands with someone
My eyes bled,Couldn't tell you my love,
Just turned around and walked
My heart said to me that " My love is still eternal "..
As you will never leave my Heart ...
...People say change is the only thing constant . And People who don't adapt and change with times will not survive . We say the world has changed a lot and people change and our family generations have changed .Man has always had ways to bring change upon himself ...
But not all these changes are natural , if we sit back , relax and think , we will realise that many a times we force change on us. This happens because of external influences and we fear if we don't force the change on us , we cant survive. For example assume a Television set .. from a black and white box shaped receiver to update to date wall mountable 3d LED's . , what a transformation ??? . Mind boggling in one way . But look at the evolution carefully . from black and white to colour was all fine and really a modern step but then from that to Plasma , Lcd and now LED's .. are these even necessary and don't you think these changes are forced on us and we succumb to the external pressure.
In the same the Culture , Family values and ethics are dwindling or now a days people call it " Change"/.Pre-marital affairs , post marital affairs and extra marital affairs are all called modern socio- changes , the respect to the morality , values and and even Love ..which is supposed to be so pure has now become commercialised and it is really surprising .. love now a days changes from person to another person in no time .. we propose , dispose and we propose again .. and when we give a reason for the break up ..we say the person changed .. aren't we supposed to understand each other when we are in love and love is certainly not already having a an affair and going around with someone else to coffee bars or pubs and walking hand in hand, clicking cuddly pictures .. and then we realise when one day the person doesn't take us around and then they call it quits and we loose the other person who loved us truly too ... we call all the above things as modern love and how we excitedly say how Love has changed over time .. again this change in love .. is externally influenced .
We say the World is changing and we need to change but in reality we are forcing the world to change !!!
Wen a person is off good nature and character ? would you want him to change?? change wont be required if we start accepting things or even people as they are .. and the love which comes when accepting things as they are will be ever lasting .. .
On the other hand we fail to force the change were we need too , as in our political system .. Today's politicians are nothing but blood suckers .. they extract as much as possible from people rather than protecting people. We must force these people out, now that is what i call as a Good Change.
We should ask the question to ourselves .. The change which we need to undergo .is it natural ?? or is it exerted on us ??? and if it a forced change it must be for a good cause.
" when i was standing all alone in the darkness,
not knowing how to recogonise the light ,
not knowing how to find love .
not knowing which is true and which is not
without a hand which can lead me to light ,
without a heart which can show true love ,
without a word which can tell me the truth from the unreal...
She came along .. and she had the hand with the word and with her pure heart ..led me to everything i needed to have ...."
No words can describe her true self .. :
" If somebody asks me what would you choose out of the three 1) Love , 2) Relationships or 3) to be lonely .. i will choose the third , to be lonely .. that way "nothing leaves me "
" When people leave you ., they take away something and then you are engulfed by a feeling you cant explain .. but, if you can Smile and say that i was able to give something to someone ..then Life will definitely reward you "
When people leave us for better options , later will realise that they were , themselves an option "
" What gave you happiness might leave you , so then remember that happiness is not about what we had or have but rather how we feel"
" Love is noble when you have it on a person whom you have never seen but only feel , it becomes the noblest when the same is sustained eternally"
" Don't force anybody to love and then leave them , because when you leave all their forces will leave ..."
Ignorance is Bliss , but acting ignorant is a crime !
Winning and Loosing is all part of a Game , but if you loose always you are a playing the game wrong.
Ignorance can be justified but mistakes cant be !
If you love a person how could you even don't listen to what they want !!!
Sometimes , it might appear to be fun to do, what you are doing , but you will know the seriousness only if you loose something !
Never have a girl who says she loves you ..but always does the wrong things to go away from you !
People who don't care or listen to you , when you really are for them , don't deserve you !
well ..never waste time on somebody who require you, only when they are idle !
Live your life to the fullest ,
Yes , your smile is precious , make people realise it ,
Your kisses are costly , make people to earn it ,
After reaching the summit , just tenderly say i made it .
After a Month , curtains have come down on one of the biggest spectacle on Earth , the FIFA worldcup ! . After all the heartbreaks and near misses , two best teams Spain and Holland were gunning for glory .
The tag names of these teams will give a hint on to their past , " The Beautiful Loosers" - Dutch and " Perennial Underachievers " - Spain . Spain reached the finals for the first time and the Ducth were hoping to be third time lucky .
There were great expectations on both sides but the final was not much of excitement and it was more like a wrestling match with 16 yellow cards !!!! phew!!! that must be tiring for the referee.
The winning goal was scored in the extra time by the spanish , but Roben came close twice to score for the orange !!!
well .. Spanish deserved it , they improved with each game and they handled the pressure well in the Finals .Though I congratulate Spain on their first ever world cup win , my heart is still with Germans and the Brazilians .
Wish them well in the forthcoming edition at Brazil.
Is the above mentioned line true?? Especially in today's competitive world were everybody is ready to stab on your back and slit your throat just to get in front!. The competition is from getting a promotion ion a job to getting a Girl !! you have hundreds of men fighting for it conceptualising deceptive ways to get on top!
Nice and Gentle Men ..who are willing to respect other's feeling and value theor time .. loose the rat race by a big margin?? .. but why ?? Aren't Men who are calm , gentle , patient and at the same time who are intelligent to be noticed and recogonised . Aren't men who are mean and deceptive are to be recogoinised and be listed out .
Why is that from your Boss to a Gitl ..thinks if a Man is gentle and verl clam in approach and who doesnt blow his own horn as a " looser"" or they brand them as Men "short in confidence ".
Well its very simple because Good things are hard to come by and even if they come we reject them saying its too good to be true, such is the cynical world we live in today !!!
Living in a world full of deception and lie , we stated to accept in a way that there is no good in this world. Especially if a Man is too good., he gets branded as " Too Good to Believe".
Well ., Girls who find love in all wrong places , regert too late on missing out a Good man ..just because he was too good to be true or she thought he was not confident enough because of his gentle nature . Men who are chivalrous have become a extinct species , Men who are chivalrous are branded as " trying to get in our Pants"".. funny world. Girls , dont like good men because they just dont woo or pursue them if they are said a "NO " the first time . Nice Men respects her decision and stops wooing her , but the Girl wants him to come after her and woo her to a great length!!! , and then she claims He doesn't have the guts to declare his love to the world...Ironical isnt it?
And why are not they getting promoted , its not because they dont work .. buy they dont know to say yes for everything and they call a Spade a Spade and most importantly they are true to themselves and to the organisation they work and they doesnt ask for promotions or hike because they expect their work to do the talking. Alas we live in a world were everything is biased and all goes to people who are close to their " Bossed"" and do whatever the Bosses require or say and to those who are always running errands to their respective bosses.
And , trust me good looks is not everything but good thoughts is everything.
This Pasts goes out to " Few Good Men"
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Nice Men may finish last ..but they are the species which the world needs to make it a better place.
